{"id":3144,"date":"2022-02-18T17:46:01","date_gmt":"2022-02-18T16:46:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aetre.net\/?p=3144"},"modified":"2026-07-07T17:25:40","modified_gmt":"2026-07-07T15:25:40","slug":"le-deguisement-et-les-autres-etre-ou-paraitre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/2022\/02\/18\/le-deguisement-et-les-autres-etre-ou-paraitre\/","title":{"rendered":"Le d\u00e9guisement et les autres, \u00eatre ou para\u00eetre"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>En cette \u00e9poque de Carnaval, on se d\u00e9guise<\/b> pour parader, d\u00e9filer, se l\u00e2cher\u2026 On est un autre pour la galerie, on peut se permettre de dire des b\u00eatises, de faire des choses incongrues. On d\u00e9ploie des tr\u00e9sors d&rsquo;imagination pour cr\u00e9er un costume loufoque ou magnifique, faire rire ou r\u00eaver.<\/p>\n<p>Dans le quotidien des jeunes enfants,\u00a0<strong>on n&rsquo;a pas besoin du regard des autres pour se d\u00e9guiser<\/strong>. Au contraire, ce regard g\u00eane.\u00a0Celui qui observe les joueurs, \u00e0 moins qu&rsquo;il ne sache se montrer tr\u00e8s discret, ouvre une br\u00e8che dans le jeu.\u00a0Il suffit de quelques accessoires pour\u00a0<strong><em>\u00eatre\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>un \u00a0autre, pirate ou naufrag\u00e9, ours ou chien, et le couffin devient bateau\u2026 Le jeu risque de se briser si un\u00a0adulte, admiratif de tant de libert\u00e9, prend les joueurs en \u00a0photo. Conscients d&rsquo;\u00eatre observ\u00e9s, ils feront alors semblant d&rsquo;\u00eatre, non un ours et un chien dans un bateau, mais des enfants qui jouent \u00e0 \u00eatre un ours et un chien.<\/p>\n<p>Souvent, pourtant, les enfants font appel \u00e0 de plus grands pour se d\u00e9guiser. Ils ont besoin d&rsquo;un coup de main pour attacher un costume, trouver des accessoires, ils ont besoin d&rsquo;encouragements, de complicit\u00e9 bienveillante. Ils se voudraient Aladin ou Reine des neiges et ne savent pas comment s&rsquo;y prendre. Entre pairs, pas de souci, ils s&rsquo;entraident et la phase de d\u00e9guisement est vite d\u00e9pass\u00e9e, l&rsquo;aventure ludique commence.<\/p>\n<p>En revanche, le r\u00f4le d&rsquo;accompagnateur n&rsquo;est pas facile. On s&rsquo;amuse \u00e0 habiller l&rsquo;enfant selon son d\u00e9sir, qu&rsquo;on soit bon en couture ou capable de fouiner et de transformer cartons et tissus en mat\u00e9riaux de r\u00eave. Mais jusqu&rsquo;o\u00f9 l&rsquo;accompagner ? \u00ab\u00a0Te voil\u00e0 d\u00e9guis\u00e9, maintenant joue !\u00a0\u00bb ou, pire, \u00ab\u00a0maintenant joue, je te regarde\u00a0\u00bb. Nous avons beau y mettre toute notre tendresse, toute notre admiration, le jeu de faire-semblant se perd. <b>Le jeu narcissique<\/b> prend sa place. On court se regarder dans un miroir. Et la s\u00e9ance de d\u00e9guisement se termine en photos sur un smartphone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En cette \u00e9poque de Carnaval, on se d\u00e9guise pour parader, d\u00e9filer, se l\u00e2cher\u2026 On est un autre pour la galerie, on peut se permettre de dire des b\u00eatises, de faire [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3143,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,10],"tags":[31,71,72,73,74],"class_list":["post-3144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-jouets","category-parents-et-grands-parents","tag-deguisement-enfant","tag-imagination","tag-jeu-de-faire-semblant","tag-jeu-narcissique","tag-oskarelen"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3144","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3144"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3144\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4202,"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3144\/revisions\/4202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aetre.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}